Thursday, December 31, 2015

A Time for Reflection

The changing of a new year is the perfect time for reflection. 

Just as the tides of the ocean ebb and flow, so do the tides of our lives. Our energy. Our spirits. Our perceptions. Change is the rhythm of living, and should we allow it in and choose to rock our truths [or follow our bliss], the universe will open doors where there were only walls... 

The cave you fear to enter holds the treasure you seek. Joseph Campbell

For me, this year was pure gold. One gift after another. I have no doubt it is because I took a risk, starred fear directly in the eyes, and chose to trust fully. I set out on a truth seeking journey, alone, battled with myself, reaped reward, and then with arms wide open, welcomed health, joy, and love right back in. 

This week, I hopped on the #2015bestnine bandwagon, which pulls most-liked moments from your Instagram feed, and was pleasantly reminded of all the many things I accomplished and am to be grateful for this year. I find the Instagram platform to be a wonderful way to collect cherished memories, as well as a great form of photo journalism. 

Although I consider every day alive and breathing to be a "top-hit" kind of day, here are just 9 special moments throughout my year; all in which have taught me something and/or impacted my spiritual quest and pursuit of happiness.


1. When the US Supreme Court legalized same-sex marriage nationwide. Sharing this monumental day in history with my beautiful parents in San Francisco's Castro District. I will never forget this day.

2. Griffith Park Observatory. A reminder of all the adventures had with my sister before we parted ways. I am thankful for her love and support, and to have been able to share my first few months in LA, together.

3. The day I interviewed and landed a job at the world's largest mass media group. A GREAT reminder that with a vision, hard work, perseverance, and confidence, anything is possible.

4. Runyon Canyon, my new stomping ground and backyard. Thankful for the ability to step outside my little studio apartment and have good weather, breathtaking views, and hike nature all-year-round.

5. Beautiful beach days in sunny Southern California. I love that it is so easy to seek out water here. It is always magical and a great tool to achieve peace, calm and balance.

6. Thankful for my Warrior Princess, with whom I am able to check-in/recalibrate with on a monthly basis. She holds me accountable and creates a safe space for open conversation. Bilateral stimulation at Torrey Pines is the best!

7. A new healthy diet. A new me. Originally gluten-free at the start of the year and now I call it "low-carb." I look healthier and feel more energized than ever. Sticking with it.

8. Just another day at the beach. But more importantly, I remember this day as one where I went on a solo retreat. Getting to know myself and gaining independence. I think it is a good thing when you can be happy and content in solitude. 

9. When still shots of my days on SNL ended up in the 40th Anniversary Taschen book. A surefire reminder of my passion, drive, and past accomplishments, as well as to continue to dream big and work hard.

GET DELIBERATE.

GET INSPIRED.

GET GOING.

Cheers to "Getting It" in 2016!