Saturday, May 25, 2019

Empath Affirmations


I am strong. I am loving. I am positive. I have the power to clear all negative energy from my body. I embrace my physical, emotional and spiritual wellness. 

Wow. Right? I appreciate how just a few powerful words strung together can help manifest change in your life.  The affirmations throughout were pulled from a book I just finished reading, "The Empath's Survival Guide" by Judith Orloff, MD. Truthfully, one of the most helpful guides (or self-help books, yes I said help self-help books) I've had the pleasure of reading. Side note, don't you hate that there's such a negative stigma associated with self-help books? Personally, I see them as precious gifts to humanity that have not only given me a deeper consciousness, but also a stronger connection with other living things.

I am a very sensitive soul. And many of those that have met me would say the very same thing. Regardless of the intention, I've always felt it was a powerful piece of me, a gift. For as long as I can remember, I've celebrated (and stayed true) to those sensitivities that others may have believed to be weakness. I am an empath and that is beautiful. I feel strongly for others and a need to understand where they are coming from. 

I will not hide my gifts. I will be authentic. I will stand in my power. I am proud to be a sensitive and loving person. 

An old soul who has lived many, many lives before. A feeling of outcast at times. Possibly one that doesn't necessarily relate or get excited about things that many others do. Who doesn't like small talk. May pick up on the physical and emotional state of others as if they're your own. Isolate to re-energize. A strong reaction to food and substance. The urgent desire to help others. Extremely intuitive. A super responder. It goes on...


I will protect my energy around draining people. I will learn how to set healthy boundaries. I will learn to say "no" at the right times. I will listen to my intuition about the relationships that are nurturing for me. 

Needless-to-say, I've found that learning to process my emotions and cope has been vital. I believe all human types should strive to understand their own thoughts. We are a work-in-progress. Each one of us. All the way through. And by honoring yourself, and understanding these intense feelings and sensitivities, you are becoming whole. I had many aha moments throughout this book and would suggest it to anyone looking for a better understanding of thyself or someone close.


I will use my sensitivities to better my own life and the world. 

From the book, here are a few tips to help prevent empathy overload and decompress:
  • Inhale lavender essential oil.
  • Be in nature.
  • Manage your time wisely.
  • Set clear limits with energy vampires and toxic people.
  • Practice self-compassion.
  • Take a personal retreat, away from the world, at least once a year.


Sunday, May 19, 2019

The Sweet Spot

"Blessed are the curious for they shall have adventures."Lovelle Drachman

Following an extended connection that abruptly ended, I was reminded that by deviating from the set path, we can sometimes imprint the fondest of memories; by allowing ourselves the flexibility to be curious and spontaneous, we can awaken some of the most exciting and rewarding adventures. Building the most beautiful mosaic. I consider this The Sweet Spot.

Yes, we've all been there before, but how do we consciously stay in that deliciousness? Our minds are comforted by routine and hot-wired for patterns. It's the human condition. Actually, creativity comes to life within structure. So, when we invite curiosity in and allow for scary unplanned circumstances, we're not only expanding the realm in which our creative self lives, but also breaking through those daily ruts and manifesting a more deeply fulfilled life experience.

A simple instruction to The Sweet Spot is to stay curious + take risks + face fear head-on. Personally, I find it less daunting when thought of as a self-awareness challenge; staying in the moment but paying attention to those uneasy anxious times, and making a point to vear off path and not succumb to imprisonment [or the mundane]. Flexing those mind muscles from time to time can make for a really strong, versatile core. After all, the heart is where our ultimate truth lies.

"Once we believe in ourselves, we can risk curiosity, wonder, spontaneous delight, or any experience that reveals the human spirit." E. E. Cummings

The vast sweep of the sea softly whispered that incalculable possibilities await... Be still, listen closely... Do you hear it?

Oside Pier